Ladies!...4 Secrets You Need to Know About Men

Women need to know the hidden truth about men. The stuff that keeps us happy and free from cheating or committing adultery. Cause honestly, men actually think about it before cheating. They think about their actions and way their decision based on how their current relationship is going.

1.) Men need an Outlet

If you are married or in a serious relationship that is going on for some years now, know that men need an outlet. Basically, this is time away from the romance and love that is going on with their partners. This is the time where they may go out to drink, grill, fish, watch sports-center or even playing the video game. They need hobbies that reflect back to their youth when they were kids playing football in the streets. It burns energy, keeps them level and relieves stress that might be built. As a woman, it is necessary that you identify these hobbies and do not interfere with them. Because once that outlet is broken or neglected, they become agitated and quick tempered

2.) SEX, Men need Sex!

Sorry, but bottom line here is men need sex!  It is a given that normally in a relationship, men sex drive is higher than women. Men have an extra chromosome in their bodies that makes them want to have sex. They were made like that and it can't change. As a spouse or partner it is up to you to be there and respond to your man. I do know that in some situations or just any old ordinary day, women are not going to always be in the mood; however, if a women has refrained from intercourse with her partner for months, then don't be surprised of the consequences from doing that. Men understand that women aren't going to always be in the mood. Women should understand that in order to keep her partner happy and satisfied she doesn't need to refrain from intercourse this long. This is the one thing that is going to lead to adultery and just like in the introduction paragraph, men sometimes think before they cheat and if it is worth the risk of stepping out, in order to have intercourse and they have a long layoff with their partners. Guess what!! They are going to step out and cheat 9 out of ten times. Now, if you are in a marriage it is different. Women should always remember, actually men and women should remember, that there is someone else out there that will perform the need, if it is not been satisfied at home. But if you play the dirty game, be prepared for the consequences!

3.) Appreciated

Yes ladies, all men would like to feel appreciated. If you are a woman who can honestly say that you have a good man at home, show him that you appreciate what he is doing. The worst thing a woman can do is add on more problems for a male, not cooking, leaving the house nasty. By doing this, you are becoming more of an expense than an asset to his daily activities. If a man feels that he is appreciated by his woman he will continue to handle the ongoing problems in a relationship and he will have the self-awareness that his lady appreciates it. Good men, will do all that they can to make sure their wives live happy. In some instances, this can be very difficult in a relationship. You may have a woman who is high maintenance and requires a lot of attention to keep her happy. Even this particular woman can show her appreciation by surprising or just saying she appreciates /love what he is doing. Men take great pride in keeping their women happy it is part of their pride. They would rather do all they can to make their women happy at home than to have another man come in and do it for them. Those are the ones that men step-out on because they think that the man is suppose to do this and they are living in their own fantasy world. Remember, a woman that shows appreciation is a keeper and the one that becomes more of an expense has to be replaced.

 4.) Taking Initiative

Taking initiative as a woman is actually something that can separate you from other women. This is an ability that is rare and you do not find in most women. A man appreciates any woman in a relationship that makes being or living with her easier. Ladies imagine how many women actually help there hubbies cut grass, almost none. I bet you that if you were to get out their and help cut grass or something, your man would probably pass out. But, if you did this and your hubby brag to his friends about you doing this, they are going to tell him ," Man you got a good woman at home, I can't even get my wife to wash the damn dishes, you got a keeper man", and believe it or not men love to hear this coming from their friends. The fact that their friends make comments like this reassures them that they having something that other men don't have. Also, this reassures them that they need to do all that they can to keep their woman happy and by their side. Do not let it be just sex or cooking, women are more than that to men. Find something that he does by himself that can be done together and made fun. Take initiative it works!